People don’t follow titles, they follow courage. – William Wells Brown
How does it make you feel when you see someone demonstrate personal courage?
As for me, I get this odd feeling of respect and usually a strange desire to join them. Ever wonder why that is? I think it comes back to one word:
Trust.
Let me explain. To have courage, you must first have fear (courage can’t exist without it). So here’s this person, in a fear-inducing situation, only they aren’t letting their fear run the show. Instead of abdicating to fear, they’re trusting their values and abilities to navigate whatever is going on. That intense trust in themselves is what draws us in.
We all have fears. Find someone who generates courage in the face of fear, and we’ll naturally gravitate toward him. Find someone who trusts she can get herself and everyone else through safely to the others side, and we’ll follow her.
Here are three things you can do in the face of fear to encourage yourself and those around you:
1. Stand Up. Take responsibility for your values and your people—not only will you sleep better at night, you’ll attract loyal followers as well.
2. Speak Up. You always have an opinion—whether you realize it or not. Know what yours is—and be ready to share it.
3. Step Up. Words and positioning are a good start, but in the end, action is what communicates your real commitment, and thus, your true courage.
I’m going to choose to be a courageous leader today. I challenge you to do the same.
Where do you need to stand up, speak up, or step up?